10 Of The Most Important Qualities Women Look for in a Guy

For a woman, or for a woman, finding a partner is far from being as easy as one might think…

After the illusions of the post-adolescent period, we quickly understand, by following a few unimportant stories, that the most important thing is to find the person who suits us…

For that, gentlemen, you have some criteria, physical, intellectual, emotional. Just like these ladies…

If we are not going to fall into the trap of making you believe that all women desire the same thing, aware that they are all fully unique, we know nevertheless that for many, the ideal man should have some qualities…

Besides the physical criteria, attractive women actually expect many things from the one who will share their lives, and this is quite understandable!

So, to have a chance to seduce them, and live a beautiful love story, let’s go back to the 10 qualities that seductive women are looking for in a man!

1- An honest man, from the first night…

Among the indispensable qualities that a man should possess, many women mention honesty. And this applies to one-night stands as well as to great love stories. To seduce a woman, stop telling her stories in order to make her dream, what she really wants, above all, is that you are honest.

If all the truths are not always good to say, and that in a couple each one must endeavour to keep its secret garden, it is nevertheless essential to make truth when you speak about you.

You are looking for a simple relationship, based on pleasure and without commitment, having the honesty to tell this attractive woman with whom you have been exchanging for some time. You have been very affected by a sentimental story recently, again, try to bring it up, rather quickly, or risk being accused of lying!

An attractive and intelligent woman, far from the clichés of the hysterical and jealous woman, can hear many things, show empathy and even more understanding. She will forgive much more easily the mistakes made and confessed, than the lies discovered! Remember this!

2- An attractive woman loves a confident man!

Seductive women are aware, most often at least, of their powers of seduction. If they don’t always play with them (contrary to popular belief), they particularly like men who know how to use them to seduce them!

If you’re shy, if you can’t strike up a conversation and if you blush at every question she asks you, there’s a good chance that the lady you love will lose interest. Just like the real Prince Charming of their childhood, women like to be seduced, tactfully and delicately, but they like to be seduced.

Showing self-confidence is then proving to her, in an indirect way, that you are sure to be able to make her happy, and fulfill her…

3- In search of attention and tenderness

Although it is important to avoid falling into the trap of stereotypes of all kinds, which never cease to divide women and men, it must be recognized that many women, in couples for many years, reproach their partners for their lack of tenderness…

To seduce a woman, and to be able to live a beautiful story by her side, a man must be able to show all kinds of attention, from the smallest and most insignificant (at first sight at least), to the most pleasant surprises made just for her…

Hugging her when you feel that the day has been hard, taking the time to make her favorite meal, complimenting her on that new outfit she’s wearing (always being sincere!), taking the time to be interested in her, these are essential qualities that all women are looking for…

Better still, they give it back to you wonderfully! Indeed, there is no more gentle and caring than a woman in love!

4- A man who knows how to listen and talk!

An attractive woman is not only looking for a lover or a daily partner, she wants to be able to live with someone who will also be her friend, her confidant when she needs it…

Knowing how to listen, but also knowing how to deliver is therefore essential in a couple. Many are those who have fallen into the trap of lack of communication, women then feel abandoned.

A woman likes to confide in you, not for the pleasure of talking, but in reality to get your point of view on the situation, to look at it differently. She expects the one who will share her life to be able to bring her the listening she needs; but not only!

Far from empty relationships, an attractive woman in a couple likes to have the feeling of exchanging with her man. She likes him to talk to her, to share his doubts and fears. Many of you do not want to let your guard down, and never discuss certain topics of conversation, voluntarily!

It is however a mistake, an attractive woman does not ask a man to be invincible, he can doubt, with his faults, she would simply like to be able to talk with him…

5- Kindness, compassion and humor

To seduce a beautiful woman, it is better to know how to show compassion and kindness. Probably too accustomed to dating men with oversized egos and a level of altruism approaching zero, more and more women are assuming to look for a nice man to share their daily lives.

Many of them flee more and more from selfish men, full of themselves, navel-gazing, profiles that do not interest them!

Moreover, a woman likes to laugh, just like a man! Many women admit that humor is an important criterion in the choice of their companions.

If they don’t want to live with a teenager, a touch of humor in their daily life is always welcome, and a man who knows how to make a woman laugh, there is nothing more seductive (except maybe this woman who laughs, in a disconcerting sincerity of beauty…)

6- A responsible man

An attractive woman, an intelligent woman knows, most of the time, what she wants in life, what she wants for herself, and also, what she doesn’t want! And one thing is certain, attractive women don’t particularly like men who are not very responsible, who continue to play at being teenagers, in spite of the time that passes.

To live with an attractive and confident woman, it is better to know how to face responsibilities, obligations of all kinds, and to know how to bring her help when she needs it.

Even more, when a woman manages her career as well as her family life, she expects her companion to accompany her and help her: managing papers, household tasks, raising children, making decisions, know how to make your sense of responsibility speak!

7- Attractive women are looking for fidelity

Obviously, we can’t list the qualities that an attractive woman looks for in a man, without mentioning an essential quality: fidelity!

We have to admit it, with the explosion of social networks, the advent of a new consumption mode that influences even the love behaviors (if we are to believe the conclusions raised by many couple therapists), or the advent of dating sites of all kinds, infidelity has never been so present in the life of a couple (when some would say that it has only ever been mentioned so much)…

Women are now looking for a faithful man, and not a womanizer who will even seduce their best friend…

Far from the clichés that are still found in American romantic comedies, more and more women are running away from the playboy of the bar or the nightclub they frequent, having little desire to become one more conquest on an already full list.

In couples, women also expect the same fidelity, which they themselves know how to show. A seductive woman expects the one she is in a relationship with to make her the only woman who counts in his eyes, the only one he knows so intimately, this is a fundamental notion for her!

8- A touch of romance to seduce a woman

Without falling into the cliché of the ever more romantic prince charming (which, let’s face it, could end up being a bit annoying), women love a touch of romance, which makes them dream and relive their little girl hopes. For this, you gentlemen must make sure that Madame feels like a presence at your side, without overdoing it!

Slip her jacket over you so she doesn’t catch a cold, open the car door for her when she arrives at the restaurant, book her a night out at her favorite restaurant, a weekend at a spa, or even a simple but romantic moment together. Love makes women vibrate, so dare to be romantic in your own way!

9- A man who respects and encourages his wife

According to different studies, when a woman earns more money than her partner, in more than 40% of the cases, this poses a problem in the couple… A problem for these men who refuse to feel “inferior” to their wives… And yet!

An attractive woman is a woman who knows what she wants, she often has specific plans for her professional and personal future, and will not accept that someone puts obstacles in her way, quite the contrary.

In reality, a woman expects the one who shares her life to do so by encouraging her, to help her to realize herself, to become who she wants to be, and not to remain in her shadow… Respecting the woman you love, then, also means helping her to take the paths that are good for her, not doubting her and her projects, to help her to accomplish them if that makes her happy!

10- A man who dares to talk about love and invest in a story

Finally, women are also looking for a man who is not afraid to talk about love, to feel it and even more to invest himself in a love story…

Without evoking the myth of the famous biological clock which would torment the women, these last ones are most often, in the search of a history for the least serious and sincere. If they are not always looking for their future husbands or the father of their children, they want and need to fall in love, to be in front of a man who is not afraid to talk about feelings.

A man who dares to affirm his desire to create a couple, who dares to talk about love and tell her how much he loves her… Beside the cliché of the mysterious man who doesn’t reveal his feelings, and would obviously be the lady-killer, a woman needs to feel love to feel invested in a man, without which she won’t hesitate to put an end to the relationship!