7 proofs of love that all women would like to receive

Love rites – more or less socially constructed – are essential in love stories. One of them is the “founding myth”, which builds and establishes the relationship over time in a love relationship. Idealization of the other and common points, declarations of love at a moment’s notice, desire to show oneself in the best light… This love myth is the cement of the couple. But when can we talk about real proof of love? Here are 7 that speak for themselves!

Support you in all your projects

One of the most beautiful proofs of love that your spouse can show is to accept your choices, even if they do not correspond to his or her own desires. For example, it’s supporting you in a plan to go abroad, even if it means you’ll be living a few months apart; it’s accepting that you don’t want to get married, even if he does; or it’s encouraging you to change jobs, even if it means spending less time together. In other words, it’s wanting you to be happy first.

Punctuate your daily life with small attentions
Finding love also means realizing that it is precious and that it must be cherished. And this happens through small attentions, scattered throughout the day: a note “Good morning, my love” left on the bedside table, a misty heart in the bathroom, a compliment a day… All these daily attentions are simple – yet adorable – ways to prove your love. More meaningful than a fiery declaration, sprinkling little touches of happiness into your life every day is certainly one of the prettiest ways to love!

Give yourself surprises that suit your tastes
Even if 18.6% of the French population declare that they prefer hugs and kisses as a proof of love, letting yourself be amazed by a well-chosen surprise is certainly delectable! And for that, there is not always a need to show off: it can be a weekend of hiking – because he knows how much you love the great outdoors – or on the contrary, a stay in a European capital, because you have been dreaming of it for months! In any case, cultivating surprise is a beautiful proof of love: it shows that your partner doesn’t want routine to set in and that he is ready to go out of his way to please you.

Talk about your difficulties
Daring to confide in your partner about your fears, to talk about your anxieties or to cry is a proof of love, because it is a sign of great trust. Not easy – especially in front of your loved one – revealing yourself in a less than glorious light is a way to let the other person into your deepest intimacy.

Love (even) your faults
Smiling when you grumble, accepting your legendary clumsiness or understanding your hypersensitivity… So many attitudes that show that your partner loves you unconditionally. It’s knowing each other by heart, and continuing to love each other. In the manner of Brel who sang: “I know all your spells, you know all my bewitchments”, to finish with: “Oh, my love, my sweet, my tender, my wonderful love, from the clear dawn until the end of the day… I love you”. We can’t get enough of this boundless love!

Sharing with you her passions
Making you enter his favorite universe is also a beautiful proof of love: through this sharing, it is a whole part of his identity that he offers you. And this is even more obvious when this sharing is common: he makes you discover his passions and he wishes to discover your world.

Act without needing to prove anything
Unconditional love is the kind that has no limits and – above all – doesn’t need to be proven. The most beautiful proof of love could therefore be to love yourself without expecting anything in return. How? By giving you unwavering support in your projects, especially those that thrill you. By trusting your choices and the love you share. By small discreet attentions that don’t expect any praise… Yes, the most beautiful proof of love is perhaps not to feel the need to prove it: because it is obvious, daily, everywhere and omnipresent, quite simply!